Missing Out on the Coldplay Concert in Manila and FOMO


This month, a lot of us are experiencing feelings FOMO (fear of missing out) because of the Coldplay - A Head Full of Dreams Tour.

For me, it began last week when folks watched in Singapore (tickets were cheaper). It continued to last night when Coldplay played in SM Mall of Asia Concert Grounds. Pictures and videos of the concert are all over social media. Those who did not go tweet about envy and regret (like me!). Seeing the Explore section on Instagram today, Chris Martin's face was all over because local celebrities and insta-famous individuals also went last night.

I'm expecting to still be bombarded of Coldplay videos all the way to next week because they're playing next in Bangkok, Taipei, Seoul, Tokyo. Those on a Coldplay "high" will still be #latergramming it until next week.

Filipinos have touted this concert as "once-in-a-lifetime". How could we not? Fans have been anticipating this, probably, for a decade already. We also don't know if and when they are coming back. This just further exacerbates the FOMO-ness of it all.

I'm sure majority of the population is mature enough to handle this. But for the sake of sharing feelings and tips on how to deal with it, read below.

1. Acknowledge Negative Feelings
Whenever there are negative emotions, don't be in denial. Acknowledge that they're present and wallow in it. It's not healthy to deny your negative feelings. Your friends went without you? It's OK. You're not alone. Many of us are fans and we feel you.

2. Stand By Your Decision
While feeling the FOMO, take responsibility for your decision. Look back to why you did not buy tickets. For me, I thought it was too expensive. I don't like concerts where there are no seats and open air. I don't like having to go all the way to MOA Arena on a weeknight. I also don't think concerts are worth it if you're not somewhere in front. I also don't like crowds. What was your reason? Think back.

3. Don't Mock the People Who Post
Part of taking responsibility is not blaming those who did go for your negative feelings. Let them post as much as they want. Don't mock them for posting too much. Those who went to see Coldplay spent a fortune on it so let them revel in it.

Remember, this too shall pass. It's not forever. The desire is only magnified because it's all over social media. Next month, the hype will be gone. 

As long as Coldplay isn't retiring, there will still be another one in the future. Maybe not in the Philippines, but you'll get your chance. You'll get a chance to tick Coldplay off your bucket list.

P.S. Someone posted the full concert of Coldplay A Head of Full Dreams on Youtube! It's from 2016 in the US. Para hindi ka na "miss out".

Is it safe to travel to Manila Philippines? Tips on Staying Safe


With the international highlight on Extra-Judicial Killings and news about terrorist kidnappings, many of my non-Filipino friends would prefer NOT to visit me. Our news is peppered with news of innocent bystanders or innocent family members of suspects being victimized and kidnappings by terrorists.

It's indeed a shame that Philippines only drew in 5.9 million tourists (compared to Thailand's 32.6 million) last year. We can't really blame the media for the negative news. While we've got beautiful places, friendly people, and great food, our poor infrastructure makes it tough for folks without cars to get around.

3 years ago, my Swedish female friend came Manila. She didn't tell her parents at first. When they found out, they were alarmed because of the kidnappings in the news. She calmed her parents down, telling them that I'm going to be with her all throughout her trip -- even picking her up from the airport and bringing her back. She did feel safe, but I think she felt stifled because I wouldn't let her go exploring by herself. 

2 years ago, I had a Lithuanian acquaintance who came here on a business trip. On her first day, I fetched her from her hotel. I gave her a driving tour of Metro Manila. We were just in the car so it was more like a 3-hour overview of Metro Manila. Starting from Makati, I drove her to Intramuros to see the Spanish influence. Next was Chinatown to see the Chinese influence. Then to San Juan to pass by Greenhills. Finally, we went to Bonifacio Global City, where we had afternoon snacks in High Street. She was amazed at how different each of the areas were from small streets in Binondo to the high-rises in BGC. Since she was in the Philippines for about a month, she'd travel around by herself via taxi and go to concerts and museums. Overall she didn't run into any trouble going around. Her only complaint was the bad traffic!

Going back to the question -- Is it safe to travel to Manila, Philippines? I say Manila, Philippines, because I haven't been out of the city in a long while, so I can't personally vouch for the other places. However, it is generally safe especially the tourist-y places. Just don't go to in the terrorist-riddled places. (See here for cities to avoid)

Short answer -- Yes, it's safe to travel to Manila. Long answer -- Yes, but take the necessary precautions and follow the instructions below.

In a way, what you'll read below can sound very elitist (and fine, I probably am one!). Personally, I'd rather spend more to ensure my personal safety and that things go smoothly. If things went badly, you'd probably go home telling your friends to stay away.

Transportation

Thankfully with ride-sharing apps, getting around Metro Manila is much more secure. We both have Uber and Grabcar, so be ready with your app before getting here. During the rush hours, expect the surge to be 3x more. From the airport, get an Uber/Grabcar if you can or get a car transfer from your hotel.

I'd strongly discourage you against using taxi cabs. There are plenty of taxi-related horror stories from both locals and foreigners. Most of the time, they won't give you your change. Sometimes, they don't turn on the meter and charge you exorbitant prices, especially if you're a foreigner. A lot of times, they flat-out refuse to take you if they don't like where you're going. There are also stories of taxi abduction where the kidnappers will force you to withdraw from your ATM -- rare but I'd rather not take the chance.

As for the MRT's and LRT's, they are pretty safe (guarded) and cheap but be wary of pick-pockets. I've already known 2 people that got pick-pocketed. Stay in the ladies-only section if you can (if you're female of course). However, avoid using the trains during rush hour because you'll be packed like sardines. I'd also avoid having to change-trains from MRT to LRT because you'd have to exit and walk ~10 minutes under the heat to get to the other line.

Jeepneys and tricycles may be the cheapest way to get around, but only use it when you've got an expert local with you. Don't flaunt your wallet, cellphone, and jewelry. Or better yet, don't bring valuables with you.

As for going outside of Metro Manila, it's tough. You'd have to take the bus or hire a private car for that. To be safe, ask your hotel for tour packages that include transfers to and from outside the city.

Accommodation

I would strongly recommend accommodations in a nice safe neighborhood with plenty of lights outside and a wide side-walk. You'd be surprised how non-existent sidewalks are in the other parts of Manila. It's also a big plus if you're near a mall so you can easily drop of your loot back in the hotel. Don't go walking by yourself in dark, sketchy places!

If you're going around as a tourist, I'd recommend staying in Makati Central Business District or Bonifacio Global City Taguig. If you can't afford the hotels in Makati CBD, you can opt for Airbnb in the same area. Makati CBD and BGC Taguig area is the safest area for foreigners to walk around in. Even if you don't look Filipino, people will pretty much leave you alone. A lot of the companies operate 24/7 so there's still life in the area even at 3am. Be sure to check the surrounding areas in Google Street view.

If you're going for business, I would recommend getting a hotel close to work because Manila traffic is insane during rush hour. Check with your local colleagues for recommendations but still check the surrounding areas in Google Street view. Ask them if it's safe to walk outside.

If you happen to stay in Chinatown, Manila, it's quite safe to walk around during the day along Ongpin Street but I wouldn't recommend going off late at night. It's very busy during the day with the stores open, but unlike Makati CBD and BGC, businesses are usually closed after 6pm.

Walking Around

Given the poverty in the Philippines, you may encounter beggars asking for money. There's also one time that I've been threatened by a street kid with an ice pick for not giving them money. When walking on the sidewalk, keep your bag on the shoulder opposite the road because of the bag-snatchers in motorcycles.

Avoid talking to strangers and following them to wherever. Filipinos are one of the friendliest people in the world and it's quite easy to make friends since most of us can communicate in English. Many foreigners have fallen in love with the locals. Be wary though... Like anywhere else in the world, there are some bad people who could take advantage of you.

With the heat of the city, stay hydrated. If you're not used to the tropical weather, be sure to bring cold water with you wherever you go. You don't want to suddenly faint from the heat while walking. 

In relation to the extra-judicial killings on the news, it mostly happens in the poor areas in Metro Manila. Kidnappings by terrorist don't really happen in Manila, it's mostly in Mindanao (Southern Philippines). Kidnappings happen but kidnap-for-ransom usually happens to specific local targets, not random foreigners on the street.

Eating Around

Our restaurants are generally clean. However, if you'll be eating street food, your stomach might not have the enzymes to deal with certain bacteria. I've been eating street food since I was a kid and I've never experienced food poisoning but maybe because I'm used to it. While I think there's a low chance of food poisoning, be ready with charcoal pills or diarrhea medicine.

To conclude...

I don't mean to further discourage you from visiting by telling you what can go wrong. Living in Manila my whole life, I can tell you there are plenty of interesting things here. The Philippines has a rich history and our food is pretty awesome! I hope you follow these safety tips because I want YOU to have an enjoyable experience in Manila, Philippines.

Next entry will be the sample itinerary of Metro Manila.

New in San Juan: Kalye 1 Abad Santos Food Park


[ Update Oct 20 2018: Kalye 1 Abad Santos Food Park is closed :( ]

Food parks are the rage these days in Metro Manila! I'm quite happy because you get good food at a more reasonable price. The first one in San Juan is the Kalye 1 Abad Santos Food Park, which just opened in March 5 (2+ weeks ago). As usual with food parks, parking is very limited. We parked quite far and walked just to get there.

Luckily, we were found a comfortable table in the first floor! We arrived at 7:00 and the crowd was starting to pour in. The place wasn't that big but at least there was a second floor. There's no AC, but the place is well-ventilated and comfortable.

Check out some of the food stalls below. There were still a couple of food stalls that weren't open yet. We went around to check what appealed to us the most. My brothers went here before and took home Fish Bao from Bao Pls and Rafik Shawarma Beef Rice (which I also had for lunch earlier that day but in Salcedo Park). They've also taken home barbecue sticks from BBQ Shack and I these disappeared quite quickly at the dinner table.









OUR ORDERS:

12-Hour Smoked Beef Brisket Meal from Carnivore Cookery (Php 220)


The meat was soft and seasoned well. It had the texture of corned beef. There is a big layer of fat which I don't like, but I understand it's needed to achieve the tender texture. They also have roasted pork, but I the beef was tastier. Most of the rub was on the fat-side, so I had to scrape it off and put it on the meat side. Don't get it with the side-sauce, it tastes better without it.

Stuffed Chili Peppers from Carnivore Cookery (Php 100)



Yum... Crunchy breading... the chili pepper was just spicy enough... Inside, there's a cheese-meat filling. I think the cheese is made regular grocery cheese and the meat is the same beef bits as the smoked beef. This one goes well with the side sauce, but it's still good even without the sauce.

1/2 lbs. Honey Sriracha Chicken Wings (Php 175)


I really liked the honey sriracha sauce on the chicken wings. The 1/2 lbs consisted of 5 pieces. The chicken wings itself isn't so special, but the sauce was finger-lickin' great! I'd get this one again. I haven't tried the others, but I've been strongly advised to skip the parmesan flavor.

Bigotrio from El Bigotilyo (Php 250)



The Bigotrio is a trio of soft tacos in beef, chicken, and pork. They do not scrimp on the filling which is a plus. Out of the three, I tried the pork first and I think it was the tastiest. But then it might just be because the succeeding chicken and beef were too similar in taste with the pork. If I tried the beef first, I might have liked it more. I wished there were more variations in the sauce, like maybe the chicken could have been barbecue-chicken or something.

I should mention that they said their best-seller is the burrito but I wasn't ready to commit "tummy real-estate" for a heavy burrito. Maybe next time.


Porky Crunch from Chix and Cheese (Php 175)


I had high expectations for this one. It's chicken stuffed with bacon, cheese, and rice. There were many people who lined up for it, and so our order, understandably, took a long time to arrive. When it arrived, it did not meet the expectations. For some reason, the chicken/cheese/rice/bacon combo doesn't work on this one. I won't be getting this one again. Sorry.

There you have it! I can't declare the best yet because I haven't tried all the stalls. However, I shall be back soon, ready to try other things and I'll post an update!

Go earlier to beat the 7:30 crowd and get good seats!


Kalye 1 Abad Santos Food Park
Address: 969 J, Santos, San Juan, 1500 Metro Manila
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/kalye1foodpark/
Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/kalye1abadsantosfoodpark/

Pore Cleansing Brush from Human Nature (Review)



Last December, I bought the Pore Cleansing Brush from Human Nature (as of now at Php 550) from the website. I've been using twice a week for about 2 months now.

The product claims that because of the small bristles, it's more effective in cleaning out dirt from your pores (vs just using your plain old hands). Because of the mild exfoliation, your skin will absorb the vitamins from your face creams better.

See photo below from Human Nature's Instagram post, comparing lemon peels when cleaned with hands vs. pore cleansing brush.



Immediate Benefits

Upon using for the first time early December 2016, the mild exfoliation made my face glow a bit. I don't think I'll ever need a facial scrub anymore.  It's indeed "feathery soft" as claimed so it did not irritate my face when I pressed too hard. The facial cleanser I use was Celeteque Hydration Facial Wash (75php for the 60ml tube).

As for the boyfriend (I gave him his own too)... After his first use, his mother noticed a huge difference and asked him "What did you do to your face? Your skin looks so much brighter and smoother!".

Long Term

Thankfully, I don't normally break out. However, my usual skin issue is dryness and dullness. After using the brush twice a week for a month, I'm happy to say that it helped with the dryness and dullness because of the consistent exfoliation.

I'm also happy to say that it did not cause any breakouts because I've been careful with properly cleaning and drying the brush after each use. Watch out: The brush needs to be thoroughly cleaned and dried. Since the bristles are so dense, it's tough to dry out (It will smell like wet dog). If not dried well, it will be a breeding ground for bacteria... that will surely give you zits.

Caution when using Cleansing Brushes
  • Don't get overzealous when brushing your face. According to some bloggers (sharing stories of using cleansing brushes in general), brushing too hard and too often will trigger breakouts and will make your face red and irritated. Two times a week during night time is recommended.
  • Wash and dry the cleansing brush well, preferably somewhere with proper air circulation. I rinse and squeeze the bristles until there's no bubbly residue left. I hang it to dry in the bathroom with the windows open with a bit of sunlight coming in, so bacteria doesn't fester (yuck). Don't leave your brush in the bathroom if it's constantly steamy to prevent mold formation. Some suggest disinfecting the brush with alcohol.
  • Do not share brushes! Not even with your own sister.

Here are some more tips from Cosmo UK on using cleansing brushes

I just wished that it wasn't pink. I think if it came in white or beige, more guys will buy it.

What do you think?

Gift Ideas: Timbre Unplugged by Sustainably Made (Review)



It's a little too late to be posting gift ideas, since Christmas was just a few days ago. For those who are still cramming on their gifts (I know I am), here's a cool item that you should consider giving your audiophile friends.

When my friends moved to a new house, we wanted to get them a nice little housewarming gift. They love listening to music (their Spotify is well-utilized), so we got them the Timbre Unplugged Wooden Speakers in red (Php 600) from Sustainably Made. I bought this in the Yabang Pinoy Bazaar in Glorietta sometime around September 2016.

The Timbre Unplugged is made entirely from mahogany hardwood from Pangasinan, finished with tung oil and beeswax. No batteries or plugs needed which makes them easy to bring around.

My friends use it in the kitchen while cooking, in the bathroom while showering, in the bedroom while relaxing... Here's a photo from the other week when my friend baked cookies.


Here's also a photo from our outdoor sessions.




They even brought it along when we went traveling around in Bohol. We didn't even worry about getting it a bit wet while we were on the beach. However, I wouldn't risk soaking it in water for a long time, it would definitely ruin the wood.

Here's a demo video of how much the sound is enhanced. Hit the play button and turn up the volume to hear it for yourself!



Perhaps this Christmas, you can get one for yourself or for your audiophile friends! Sustainably Made has got plenty more colors (see photo below). The Timbre Unplugged is available in Common Room Katipunan and Rockwell, as well as Ava.ph and Eastalley.com


I Want This Sling Bag!



I've been pouring over Instagram for a small weekend bag. I just need one that's light but fits my wallet, cellphone, keys, receipts, portable charger, and charger. I was thinking these Trio-inspired bags would be perfect because it's small, light, and has multiple compartments. Thankfully, there's a bunch of locally made options available at pretty reasonable prices!


As of now, I haven't decided yet which one to get but here are the ones on my radar. Since it's not going to be a work-bag, I can choose something bright and colorful. I'll only use it on weekends or when I have to make a quick trip to the supermarket or something.

Twin City by Fetch Bella
Twin City Photo from Fetch Bella's Instagram
Price: Php 650
Material: Synthetic leather with velvet lining
Colors Available: Black, Mint Green, Red, Royal Blue, White, Taupe Baby Pink
Compartments: 2

Sling by Yorke Studios
Sling Photo from Yorke Studio's Instagram
Price: Php 795
Material: Vegan Leather
Colors Available: Taupe, Wine, Black
Compartments: 3

Troika by Sinude Bags 
Troika Photo from Sinude Bags' Instagram
Price: Php 3,500
Material: Genuine Embossed Leather
Colors: Creamy Nude, Salmon, and Navy Blue
Compartments: 3

Marian Sling by Shiq Bags
Marian Sling Photo from Shiq Bags' Instagram
Price: Php 600
Material: Synthetic Smooth Leather
Colors Available: Light Grey, Dark Grey, Silver, Gold, Taupe
Compartments: 2


Custom Explore Sling by The Leather Company
Explore Sling Photo from The Leather Company's Instagram
Price: Inquire via Viber/Whatsapp 0999 8834618
Material: Genuine Leather 
Compartments: 3

I'm leaning towards going for synthetic leather since I think I might end up buying several in different colors (genuine leather is more expensive). It will boil down to the color that matches my usual weekend outfits. When I do get to buy, that'll be another entry for another day! :)

Pili & Pino Banana and Cacao Granola (Review)


With the terrible traffic in Metro Manila, I always get hungry on the way home. On the road, I'd go for McDonald's drive-thru. When I get home, I go straight for junk food. I can't make good choices when I'm starving. 

This time, I'm trying out the Pili & Pino Banana Cacao Granola (Php 195 for 150 grams). I ordered mine from the Human Nature website. It comes in a resealable foil-paper bag, which is good because I plan to keep it in my bag for small snacking during traffic. 

Aside from as a snack, it can be eaten with milk for breakfast or as yogurt toppings. I think it's a little too expensive to be eaten as breakfast, if you're switching over from regular cereal. With just 150 grams, it will only last you 2 days.

Back of the package
Pili & Pino makes premium products using Filipino products. Pili & Pino is, of course, a word play of Pilipino (Filipino) read story here. Their products are all sweetened with coconut nectar, which is low-glycemic (won't cause a sugar crash).

So what's in their granola? According to the website, it has rolled oats, cashew nuts, pumpkin seeds, squash seeds, banana chips, cacao nibs, wheat germ, coconut nectar syrup. Here's a close up shot. The cashews are not in the picture, but they're in the bottom of the bag. Just needed to shake it around to find them.

The granola up close
Overall, it's not too sweet. It's mostly crunchy with a hint of banana and nutty flavor. Since it's not too sweet, I sometimes don't realize that I've already had too much. Perhaps to a non-Pinoy, it would taste exotic because of the banana chips and the coco nectar.

The cacao nibs are crunchy and slightly bitter, zero sweetness. They didn't have any chocolatey taste. I'm slightly disappointed for the no chocolate bits, but then again, this is supposed to be a healthy snack. Even though cacao nibs didn't have any chocolatey taste, I'm happy to find out that it's a superfood! It's high in anti-oxidants, magnesium, potassium, and fiber. Read more here:

Next time, I'll be trying the Mango & Pineapple Granola. I prefer my granola to be a mix of crunchy and chewy. Pili & Pino has a lot more granola variants on their website, but the Human Nature website only carries the Banana Cacao and Mango Pineapple variant.

Pili & Pino
Website: www.piliandpino.com/
Order Page: humanheartnature.com/buy/index.php/food/pili-and-pino-granola.html
Facebook: www.facebook.com/piliandpino
Instagram: www.instagram.com/piliandpino

Ilog Maria Honey and Propolis Throat Spray (Review)



All week long, I've been having itchy-throat coughs. It's annoying because it's just tiny bits of phlegm and yet I'd have coughing fits just because it's so itchy.

It's even more annoying when I'm trying to fall asleep. Here I am about to doze off when *COUGH COUGH COUGH* then I'm fully awake again!

Thankfully, my mom gave me this: Ilog Maria Honeybee Farms Honey and Propolis Throat Spray! (Php 88) It soothes my itchy throat long enough for me to fall asleep! Now, I bring it around in my bag during the day and I leave it beside my bed at night.

Aside from soothing itchy throat, it also makes my breath minty. Honey has anti-bacterial properties so it helps kills the smelly itch-causing bacteria. I'd probably even spritz my mouth when I get hungry (Sorry, no, don't do that, it's just me)!

Check out the rest of Ilog Maria's products at their website. They have more products online.

Ilog Maria Honeybee Farms
Website: www.ilogmaria.com/shop
Instagram: www.instagram.com/ilogmaria123

Habi Batangan Scarf ❤ (Review)


Last week, I ordered this scarf from Habi Batangan. I fell in love with their Scarlet Collection, especially the red and white striped one. It felt so casual-scholarly, kind of like the scarves that Hogwarts students would wear, but not too Griffyndor-ish.  I HAD to have it.

Habi Batangan makes handwoven apparel and furnishings in Ibaan Batangas. The women who make them are called "Nanay Weavers" (nanay meaning mother, to those who don't speak Tagalog). Habi Batangan aims to provide sustainable income for these women and their families. Check out this photo of one of the Nanay Weavers, Nanay Ina. Click here for her story.



Here are more scarves from the Scarlet Collection. There might still be some left!



I messaged @habibatangan on Instagram and transacted from there. I paid Php 1199 + 50 shipping through BPI fund transfer. After 2 days, it arrived! They were very easy to talk to and they answer fast.

Nicely wrapped in blue paper
Here's a lovely note from Habi Batangan. Remember to HANDWASH WITH CARE!
As soon as I opened it, I used it right away unwashed because it was so cold in the office. I loved that it was soft (it's made with combed cotton) and thick enough to insulate me from the too-cold aircon air, yet it wasn't heavy. It's big enough to be a shawl but it's not too big to be a scarf too (68 inches x 28 inches). The closest thing I can compare the texture with is the blanket from Philippine airlines, but with this scarf a bit thicker. Zoom in closer to the photos so you can see the texture up close.

I had it washed as soon as I got home, because I couldn't wait to use it. After washing it came out even softer. It was awesome that the colors didn't run too! However, since I didn't handwash with care, it pulled some parts of the weave. I think our clothespin pulled some areas too but I'm hoping that it will re-adjust back in the next wash.

Check it out wrapped around my neck! I absolutely cannot wait to use it somewhere cold. *big smiles*

Snug in my Habi Batangan Scarf
I couldn't wait to get another one for myself. This time, I ordered the a blue one! It wasn't posted on Instagram yet, but I DM'ed them so they let me snag one first. YAY!

Check out the rest of their gallery on Instagram for more. They came out with infinity scarves and they brought out their purple collection. 

Habi Batangan

UPDATE (Nov 10): I bought 3 more after this! Check out these pics. I bought one in blue and two in ecru. The ecru looks more like light-yellow in person than in the photos. I was expecting it to be beige based on the photos on their Instagram. The blue one went to my sister, the ecru ones for mom and grandma.